Stop Forcing Yourself to Like Things Just Because Other People Like Them..

Recently, I have realized many things I thought I liked as a teenager & college student that I actually dislike/hate.

It’s wild how society will have you thinking you want something when you actually don’t.

So here is a list of things that most people love that I dislike or hate:

(Disclaimer: It’s okay to change your mind. You grow over time, what you want changes, and your values/morals may change. Permission to change your mind. In fact, it’s probably a good thing.)

• Travelling (I love some destinations though)
• The Ocean/Beach
• Shopping
• House Projects
• Cooking
• Elaborate skin/body/hair care routines
• Hanging out with people frequently
• Giving & receiving gifts
• Working out in the gym
• Coffee
• Decluttering
• Eating/Food (For me, I eat to survive, it’s not that pleasurable to me..)
• Having a lot of décor/clutter
• Drinking alcohol
• Going out/parties
• Having lots of clothes/shoes, especially dressy ones.
• Staying up late
• Eating meat, I’ve never really enjoyed it.. 
• The idea of having a big house/mansion
• Professional massages/getting my nails done/things like that
• Having an expensive car & 1 vehicle per adult in the household
• Living somewhere with only warm weather.

What I ACTUALLY love:

• Being home
• Being alone
• Reading
• Writing
• Cleaning
• Organizing
• Having less items
• Tea
• Watching Netflix/YouTube/Twitch
• Personal Finance -Particularly helping others
• Planning!
• Anything comfy & warm
• Playing Board or Card games!
• The Sun
• Environmental Sustainability -Helping others live more sustainably
• Yoga
• Going for walks (If its not super cold or super hot)
• Going to a waterpark
• Animals, particularly cats.
• The Morning/Day Time
• Having a minimal wardrobe and dressing casual
• Mindful/Present time with my friends or family
• Not eating meat
• I want a small home, less to take care of/manage/pay for.
• A vehicle that can get me from point A to point B, preferably a hybrid or an EV and sharing one vehicle with my spouse.
• Being in the forest
• Concerts!
• Living somewhere that has all 4 seasons

Essentially, I want to change the world, but from the comfort of my own home. 🙂 (INFJ Life) I am a house cat trapped in a human’s body, it’s challenging. 

Have you fallen into this same trap?? Or am I alone in this? lol

I’m sure I’ve left something(s) out, but this is everything I could think of.

Feel free to reflect or comment below! I would love to hear about you evolving as a person.

Also, no hate to people that love what I don’t like! We all love what we love and that’s great!

-Meghan 🙂

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